Idk who needs to hear this, but I’ve found tinder to be painful as of late due to people inviting themselves over before we’ve even met.

I get it, some people want casual and I’m sure some people aren’t interested in going out and spending money for what might just be a hookup. But nothing kills my interest more than when someone comes up with some excuse to come over. I don’t want a stranger in my place, I’m a single woman. You think I’m gonna just let some dude who I barely know saunter into my apartment? Please, it makes me so uncomfortable. I don’t care how cute you are or how much we have in common.